The Secret -- Death

Like every other human/animal we tend to change day by day. Cells in our body die and create new blood cells from time to time. Isn't it not the change? Do you look the same as you were in your childhood? Did you always think about the same topic from years? Nothing stays stagnant. So does our death. Death is also a change of life. If you can accept that, everything changes from time to time, don't regret accepting, 'Death is only a change of life.' 

"Temporary death is sleep and Permanent sleep is death."

Change is inevitable. We assume that our life starts from our birth. No, it starts from a sperm and keeps on changing and at last, after its complete growth in nine months steps in this beautiful world as a baby. It even doesn't start from sperm, It is from the male reproductive system and so, it is from the food he eats. The food we eat is grown on land and so, we belong to this nature. That is the reason we are gifted to the land itself in a coffin after we are dead. We come into existence from nature around us and constant growth in us lead to our death which is to the place where we came from.

There is end for everything. Even Sun stops illuminating after few million years. If there is a beginning, then there will be an end. As every product has a manufacturing date and  an expiry date, so do humans. Every Living organism is gifted with a life on a day(birthday) and his fortune to end on some other day(death).

One tend to be sorrow when he hears about any person on deathbed. When we can realize the inner meaning of what death can be, One will never feel sorry for that person, In turn we have to be happy for him. Because, we only feel like living on this planet when we are healthy and as the age turns up, patience to live slowly dies in us.

If we even tend to live forcibly with some medication, we never feel like living. We die to live. We are not here to live forever. We are here on a purpose, and living a life without a purpose is useless. It is like a healthy human body without a soul. It doesn't matter how healthy is your body, it doesn't work. It only matters when it has a soul in it. Having a purposeful life is equally important.

Animals also live, eat, bath and do various works as we do. But, we are differentiated with them in only one way. We have an ability to think and analyze, but they don't. There is a lot of difference in death of a human and an animal. When a hen dies, we sell or cook it, making use of it in one or the other way. But when a human dies, we don't use it for any purpose. We value everyone only when they are alive and after they die, we don't even call them by name. We call them "body" indicating that it has no value anymore.

A person should be useful to develop intellectual qualities within himself and for the people around him. He can recreate himself to earn a name in million hearts only when he is alive. So, one have to concentrate on living a purposeful life when he is alive and not on death. Because, he may be rich or poor, he may live in a palace or a parking place, once he is dead, his body will be placed on the street itself.

--Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

The Secret -- Time

Time changes everything ... 

Few changes which i observed between close friends before and after getting a job.

Phone conversation limits from hours to minutes and from minutes to seconds. chatting happens very rarely, when in need especially. 

We see a lot of friends in our friend lists, but no one to care.

Lot of contacts in phone book, but no one to share.

Laughs get decreasing and hallucination keeps increasing.

We just keep doing things, which we shouldn't do at all.

We think that, calling a friend after many days feels like an insult.

But, it makes a difference my friend.

A call from your friend can change the mood of our day. It makes you pleasant. If possible, keep meeting your friends, or else, at least try to call now and then.

Nonetheless, a message can be delivered to him. If nothing works, send a greeting to his address. Because, money may not get a smile on your friend's face, but a greeting from you will be exceptional.

Though, job and money be a barrier in life, don't blame these for not having a lovely life. After months and years, we think and laugh to ourselves saying, we used to talk to each other a lot in those days.

Even I know, many of us feel the same after few years, just reminding all of you to keep in touch to feel alive.
World may not reward you for being in touch, But others get rewarded for their foolishness. Because money which they earned can  get them everything except the lovely moments spent with friends. Live a meaningful life and love your lovely wife. :p

For world, you may be the one. But for few you are the world. 

                                           -- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

Amma

                                           

My mother- my life. If there is any choice to choose between god and my mom, I will choose my mom itself, because I don't even know how god looks like, But I know how mom looks like as soon as I opened my eyes. She gave birth to me, that one reason is enough for me to give her the love she wants from me. However, even if we devote every second loving her, that's like a small weed in a forest in front of her love towards her children.

Women

I feel proud to write an article on women. From my point of view, women deserve utmost respect on this planet. They are beautiful, awesome, magical, mystical, lovable, dignified and what else. That keeps on going if we start describing women. We worship them as goddess, we celebrate if she does any great job, we feel like devoting time for them at some times. But its only one side of the story.
 

Most of the men see women as goddess at some perspectives and as a lending machines in another perspective. Yes, you need to feel ashamed to figure them as lending machines. Most of us look women with only, "that" purpose. This sort of evil thinking can become a purpose for many crimes. 

I feel sorry for those women who still don't dare to come out of their home in fear that someone could attack them. It may be acid attacks, harassment or kidnaps. Whatever it is, women are unsafe. The question which strike my mind is, when I can walk freely in an independent country why can't my sisters? Why are they restricted for everything unlike men? 

My country got independence a long ago but my sisters didn't. Gandhi said, a day has to come where a women can walk in the midnight without any fear. But, the consequences in our country resemble that they can't even walk freely in the daytime.    

This post is inspired to spread a message to stop attempting rapes on women. They deserve an utmost respect than men. "Without women there is no existence for men." Change can only occur when there is a change in our thinking. Don't figure out any girl/lady with the size of their breasts, behind that there is a heart. Everyone look beautiful, it needs the right eyes to recognize the beauty.

I don't even know when that criminals come to know that "Even you(women) have a heart and it has feelings." The only gift
we can give women is to respect their feelings. That's the only thing we could do. In a loving memory for all my sisters, I keep sharing this message to educate public about the harassment done to you.
#StopHarassmentOnWomen  #FreedomForWomen

-- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

The Secret -- Being Greedy

Humans acquire everything on this planet, destroying the nature. After everything is in his hands and if someone asks him about his wealth, he answers it by saying, " There is 3/4 of the space remaining on earth on which he can give a try." This is what we call "Greed". It is dangerous than cancer, powerful than AIDS, uncontrollable as a volcano and poisonous than venom.

You tend to know how intelligent you are when you compare yourself to sagacious personalities. Similarly is your wealth, when you compare yourselves with a person who is fighting for his daily bread. We are most wealthier than the other 17% of the world population who strive to earn less than $1 per day.

One have to be satisfied with what he has rather than getting depressed with what he doesn't have. Looking for money and becoming greedy day by day doesn't solve your problem, in fact they get multiplied. Just spend with what you have. You will be a much happier person than before when you start practicing this. We have to accept a fact that, if you deserve anything, then it will be gifted to you in any means. But we need to be satisfied with the gift. Gazing at the gift and feeling greedy traps you to difficulties. SATISFACTION is the only medicine for greediness. Nothing in this world can make you happy, if you are not satisfied with what you are gifted. 

Here is the concept. We have got a wonderful structured healthy body by birth. If you would not have that body, today you would aim to work day and night to replace the affected organs with the healthier ones. Despite, ignoring this wonderful creation and getting depressed you are getting addicted to drugs which inturn is spoiling your wealth(health). Rich people tend to feel sad, knowing the fact that they spoiled their health running before wealth all their life. Tragedy is, ignoring this fact, healthier people feel depressed for being poor.

Everyone are gifted with equal wealth. Some grab it soon and some do it later. Time is the difference but everyone lands at the same place, at the graveyard taking nothing with their soul.

-- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

The Secret -- Friendship

We tend to be happy when we are with friends. Time passes by unknowingly when we are with them. They act as a soul to a human body. Anyone without friends are something like a human body without a soul which is of no use.  There are many reasons why friends become important. As we grow up from childhood, that is the stage where we slowly gain knowledge of what is good and what is bad. Friends do stay with us from childhood and slowly, as we grew up they become a part of us in every stage of our lives. 

When we go bit further, people increase their network gradually through friends. It never stops and keeps on increasing. In this journey, we have seen all the advantages of being a friend to someone. If we can go bit further and think, there is also the other side of a coin which we need to know.

It may be your friends, relatives, life partner or your children, with whom ever your feelings are attached, they become your weakness. If you get attached to some one, that doesn't mean you are becoming strong. It means day-by-day you are becoming weak. This is truth which always looks bitter. There is something in truth which is so pure, pure than a diamond, pure than a piece of coal into which, the deeper you dig, you find nothing other than coal.

I will explain you clearly. There is duality in everything you see in this world.

If there is a day, then there will be night.

If there is a sunrise, there will be sunset.

If you are happy today, you will be sad tomorrow.

If you are happy with your friends today, you better remember that you are going to be sad tomorrow. That is the reason, a wise person neither stays happy nor sad. He just strives to gain knowledge for a purpose of his existence in this world. 

                                                        -- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

Telangana - A New Hope

It was in 1969, For the first time, a movement started for a separate state from the people. Reports say that approximately 369 people were killed in the police firings. From then till now, Telangana movement has gained its importance in the people. Political parties have made their stand neutral to favor both the regions which is all included in the vote bank politics. 

The movement have again started full fledged from Nov 2009, which revolved under many circumstances to gain attention from the people which benefits them in elections. Congress Party becoming the center figure which neither gives support to Telangana nor Andhra have dragged the issue to a critical stage. And after five years of continuous bandhs and curfew Telangana people have gained their own state and now feeling proud to say, they are from Telangana state.

Sources reveal us saying, officially on June 2nd Telangana will be declared as the 29th state of India. Its a great news that we, the Telangana people have got our state but now what we are supposed to do? Shall we stay happy like this saying we got our state? There is something people need to observe now. All the schemes, benefits which all parties have promised before the declaration of Telangana, saying that Telangana people get benefited in a thousand ways if they get their own state which is practically not possible. 

There is still a divisive opinion on division, But the thing happened is for a good cause. It becomes much critical if the situation continues the same way. There would be no hope for development
if it continued the same way. Bandh on a single day is a great loss to people internally. Bandh on a single day causes loss in crores to government which affects people because it is the same 
government which benefits people through schemes it promised. If the government doesn't have any money, It have to take money in world bank and the repayable interest multiplies for years by which 
people are forced to pay extra taxes and then to cover the loss, government increases prices of daily supplies. This was the case on Andhra Pradesh from 5 years. This is why, a harsh decision is better than a slow poison.

  
Every problem arises from now itself from the commencing government in both the regions. There will be conflicts between the two states in budget allocation, water projects, integral security and many more. The congress party is slowly destroying the federal governance and taking the total power to the center to take any decision. With this the local leaders lose their power to fight for their state benefits. Now the power is with the people to decide to whom they have to give power to rule them.

Analysts say, If any other party other than congress comes into rule, there is a possibility for a change. People are fed up with congress and If again congress rules the state, either in Telangana or in Andhra or in central, there will be no scope for development for an another 10 more years. But if any other party comes into rule, Telangana may step into development and it's a gift for the local people. Any how by this day after two months, election counting will be done and people get to know who is going to rule them.

Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty