Journey

A person life can be best described as a journey of events. Each and every day there is a new event happening in life. It happened in past and it continues to happen in future. Events doesn't matter, instead.. Journey matters. 

One needs to always learn from very minute things day by day. He needs to enjoy the simple things in this journey. Daily schedule teaches us nothing but a list of tasks to complete. But unplanned schedules teaches us everything, if there is an ability to identify what we have learnt.

Journey may not be our life, But LIFE is definitely a journey. No one knows when and where it has started, but it started. I am happy that my journey has started and want to travel and know myself. How will I know? I can only know if I cross question every event which is going to come and for which I am the only person who is responsible for my destination.

No individual aspires there destination to be bad. I don't know how my journey started, but I will know how my journey ends. It only follows the events in our journey. If you board a train at night, you may get down at any stop from source to destination and find your way. But you will find your way.

For your journey to be beautiful, course of events which you face matters. The way you tackle the events matter the most. The only way you need to tackle them again depends on how you enjoy simple things, how you learn from minute events every second and move forward.

Have a happy and safe journey. 

                             -- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty 

The Secret -- Death

Like every other human/animal we tend to change day by day. Cells in our body die and create new blood cells from time to time. Isn't it not the change? Do you look the same as you were in your childhood? Did you always think about the same topic from years? Nothing stays stagnant. So does our death. Death is also a change of life. If you can accept that, everything changes from time to time, don't regret accepting, 'Death is only a change of life.' 

"Temporary death is sleep and Permanent sleep is death."

Change is inevitable. We assume that our life starts from our birth. No, it starts from a sperm and keeps on changing and at last, after its complete growth in nine months steps in this beautiful world as a baby. It even doesn't start from sperm, It is from the male reproductive system and so, it is from the food he eats. The food we eat is grown on land and so, we belong to this nature. That is the reason we are gifted to the land itself in a coffin after we are dead. We come into existence from nature around us and constant growth in us lead to our death which is to the place where we came from.

There is end for everything. Even Sun stops illuminating after few million years. If there is a beginning, then there will be an end. As every product has a manufacturing date and  an expiry date, so do humans. Every Living organism is gifted with a life on a day(birthday) and his fortune to end on some other day(death).

One tend to be sorrow when he hears about any person on deathbed. When we can realize the inner meaning of what death can be, One will never feel sorry for that person, In turn we have to be happy for him. Because, we only feel like living on this planet when we are healthy and as the age turns up, patience to live slowly dies in us.

If we even tend to live forcibly with some medication, we never feel like living. We die to live. We are not here to live forever. We are here on a purpose, and living a life without a purpose is useless. It is like a healthy human body without a soul. It doesn't matter how healthy is your body, it doesn't work. It only matters when it has a soul in it. Having a purposeful life is equally important.

Animals also live, eat, bath and do various works as we do. But, we are differentiated with them in only one way. We have an ability to think and analyze, but they don't. There is a lot of difference in death of a human and an animal. When a hen dies, we sell or cook it, making use of it in one or the other way. But when a human dies, we don't use it for any purpose. We value everyone only when they are alive and after they die, we don't even call them by name. We call them "body" indicating that it has no value anymore.

A person should be useful to develop intellectual qualities within himself and for the people around him. He can recreate himself to earn a name in million hearts only when he is alive. So, one have to concentrate on living a purposeful life when he is alive and not on death. Because, he may be rich or poor, he may live in a palace or a parking place, once he is dead, his body will be placed on the street itself.

--Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty

The Secret -- Time

Time changes everything ... 

Few changes which i observed between close friends before and after getting a job.

Phone conversation limits from hours to minutes and from minutes to seconds. chatting happens very rarely, when in need especially. 

We see a lot of friends in our friend lists, but no one to care.

Lot of contacts in phone book, but no one to share.

Laughs get decreasing and hallucination keeps increasing.

We just keep doing things, which we shouldn't do at all.

We think that, calling a friend after many days feels like an insult.

But, it makes a difference my friend.

A call from your friend can change the mood of our day. It makes you pleasant. If possible, keep meeting your friends, or else, at least try to call now and then.

Nonetheless, a message can be delivered to him. If nothing works, send a greeting to his address. Because, money may not get a smile on your friend's face, but a greeting from you will be exceptional.

Though, job and money be a barrier in life, don't blame these for not having a lovely life. After months and years, we think and laugh to ourselves saying, we used to talk to each other a lot in those days.

Even I know, many of us feel the same after few years, just reminding all of you to keep in touch to feel alive.
World may not reward you for being in touch, But others get rewarded for their foolishness. Because money which they earned can  get them everything except the lovely moments spent with friends. Live a meaningful life and love your lovely wife. :p

For world, you may be the one. But for few you are the world. 

                                           -- Sandeep Kumar Gangisetty